Splitting

Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Bill Eddy LCSW JD; Randi Kreger

Divorce is a storm, an emotional tempest that can leave you battered and bruised-especially when you're navigating the treacherous waters of a partnership with someone who exhibits borderline or narcissistic personality traits. In Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger emerge as the lighthouse guiding you through this tumultuous journey, equipping you with life-saving tools and insights. 🌪

As you plunge into the pages of this compelling book, you might feel an adrenaline rush-an awakening, perhaps-as the authors unveil the raw, unvarnished truths of ending a partnership with a disordered personality. Eddy, a seasoned social worker and lawyer, and Kreger, a mental health advocate, masterfully dissect the intricate dynamics at play. Their expertise shines through, providing a roadmap that's not just about separation but about thriving after leaving a toxic relationship.

Picture this: every conversation feels like a chess match, every agreement spirals into chaos, and trust falters under the weight of manipulation. The authors don't just share theoretical knowledge; they draw you into a realm where emotional barbs are as lethal as physical weapons. They dissect the narcissist's game-including gaslighting, blame-shifting, and soul-destroying tactics-in a way that feels both personal and universal. Here, within the text, lies the healing balm for many who have endured such relationships.

The emotional resonance doesn't stop with the narratives presented. Readers have echoed their struggles and triumphs in comments and reviews, exposing the raw vulnerability and the strength that emerges from the ashes of a painful marriage. "I felt seen," one reader proclaims. "This book saved my sanity," another adds, recounting how Eddy and Kreger helped strip back the layers of confusion and deceit. Here lies a community of survivors bonded by shared experiences, lighting the path for those still trapped in darkness.

Beyond practical steps like securing finances and navigating custody laws, Splitting delves into self-protection through emotional fortitude. Each chapter serves as a declaration: you are not just a victim; you are a warrior! 🛡 The authors encourage you to design a life beyond survival-a life where happiness isn't just a flickering light on the horizon, but a blazing sun illuminating your path.

Yet, beware the critics. Some may argue that the book's approach can feel overly clinical or that it brushes aside the complexity of human emotions in favor of structured guidance. But isn't that exactly what you crave amid the chaos? A clear, decisive strategy to dissect and defend against the turbulence? This book isn't just a manual; it's a lifeline. 💔

As the world watches the rise in divorce rates and the scars left by dysfunctional relationships, Eddy and Kreger's work isn't merely timely-it's essential. They challenge society to recognize and address the often-misunderstood personality disorders that wreak havoc on families and lives. With their guidance, you're not merely equipped to face your ex; you are armed to rebuild and reclaim your narrative.

In the end, Splitting isn't just about divorce; it's about liberation. It's about breaking the chains that have bound you and stepping into a future reignited by strength, hope, and a resounding sense of self. Are you ready to embrace that power? Your story deserves to be told, and this book is your gateway to a new beginning. 🌈

📖 Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder

✍ by Bill Eddy LCSW JD; Randi Kreger

🧾 304 pages

2021

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